{"id":59378,"date":"2022-11-15T01:00:11","date_gmt":"2022-11-15T00:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/?p=59378"},"modified":"2022-11-11T16:21:51","modified_gmt":"2022-11-11T15:21:51","slug":"jag-hade-blivit-en-mr-nice-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/artiklar\/jag-hade-blivit-en-mr-nice-guy\/","title":{"rendered":"Jag hade blivit en Mr.Nice Guy"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 20\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 20\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<div id=\"attachment_58328\" style=\"width: 213px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-58328\" class=\"wp-image-58328\" src=\"https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"203\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor.jpeg 853w, https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor-600x900.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor-768x1152.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/lightweb.dev\/l\/svm-temp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/19A0202-Stor-610x915.jpeg 610w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 203px) 100vw, 203px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-58328\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong><em>&#8221;Per Grape \u00e4r en entre- pren\u00f6r som driver m\u00e4klar- f\u00f6retaget Hostedby i Marbella\/Fuengirola och leder idag kurser inom personlig utveckling p\u00e5 spanska solkusten. Han bor i Spanien tillsammans med sin fru, deras fyra barn och hunden Sandy. I \u00e5r k\u00e4mpar han om sin \u00f6verlevnad i TV-reality-serien Robinson. F\u00f6lj honom p\u00e5 Instagram och hans blogg p\u00e5 Muchachos.eu&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>AV : Per Grape<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 20\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<p><em><strong>Lunchen har precis kommit in och jag letar efter saltet i vanlig ordning. Pa\u030a andra sidan bordet sitter en gammal va\u0308n, och jag kan se pa\u030a honom att den senaste tiden varit tuff. Na\u030agot blek och med pa\u030asar under o\u0308gonen glor han pa\u030a mig. Jag sta\u0308ller fra\u030agan om hur la\u0308get a\u0308r till honom, och svaret jag fa\u030ar ger dubbla budskap. \u201dDet var bra att vi skiljde oss men det var inte vad vi hade planerat.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Min va\u0308n Martin fortsa\u0308tter. Jag hade blivit en Mr. Nice Guy. Det bara smo\u0308g sig pa\u030a efter ma\u030anga a\u030ar i a\u0308ktenskapet. Jag tappade mig sja\u0308lv och den jag var. Till slut kunde jag inte ens fatta beslut om vilka tomater jag skulle va\u0308lja na\u0308r jag var pa\u030a Ica. Helt ofo\u0308rmo\u0308gen att fatta beslut och jag kan idag fo\u0308rsta\u030a att det var oattraktivt. Martin fortsa\u0308tter. Det blev na\u030an obalans i a\u0308ktenskapet och vi fo\u0308rso\u0308kte hitta tillbaka till va\u030ar relation men det gick inte.<\/p>\n<p>Lunchen avslutades med en sedvanlig kluns om notan och sedan skiljdes vi a\u030at. (Jag vann en gratislunch och det ka\u0308ndes taskigare a\u0308n vanligt.)<\/p>\n<p>Jag kunde inte riktigt sla\u0308ppa det da\u0308r med att vara en Mr. Nice Guy och som vanligt blev det reflektion pa\u030a egen kammare. A\u0308r jag ocksa\u030a sa\u030an? En Mr. Nice Guy?<\/p>\n<p>Vad a\u0308r en <strong>Mr. Nice Guy<\/strong>? Danny Glover beskriver det i boken med just den titeln. I korta ordalag kan man beskriva en <strong>Mr. Nice Guy<\/strong> som en passivt, bitter och undvikande person. Ett slags med\u00ad beroende som handlar om att \u201dfixa\u201d allt och pa\u030a kuppen glo\u0308mma bort sig sja\u0308lv. Danny beskriver det sa\u030aklart mycket djupare och boken riktar sig till ma\u0308n men a\u0308r ocksa\u030a applicerbar pa\u030a kvinnor.<\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 20\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<p><em><strong>O\u0308vriga symptom?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>* Du har en negativ sja\u0308lvbild och la\u030ag sja\u0308lvka\u0308nsla.<\/p>\n<p>* Du sa\u0308tter ofta andras intressen fo\u0308re dina egna.<\/p>\n<p>* Du ser sa\u0308llan till dina egna behov.<\/p>\n<p>* Du engagerar dig lite va\u0308l mycket i andra och deras problem.<\/p>\n<p>* Du har sva\u030art att sa\u0308ga nej och sa\u0308tta gra\u0308nser.<\/p>\n<p>* Du dras till destruktiva personer och har sva\u030art att ta dig ur destrukti\u00adva relationer.<\/p>\n<p>* Du har sva\u030art med intimitet och att prata om ka\u0308nslor och behov.<\/p>\n<p>A\u030akte fo\u0308rbi Mercadonan pa\u030a va\u0308gen hem och laddade korgen med vanlig Coca\u00adCola, mjuka bananer och ute\u00ad la\u0308mnade det som frugan skrivit pa\u030a listan och nynnade pa\u030a Rage Against the Machine \u0301s klassiker \u201dF*ck you,<br \/>\nI won\u2019t do what you tell me\u201d &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Suave<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>AV : Per Grape Lunchen har precis kommit in och jag letar efter saltet i vanlig ordning. 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